I want to be a Good Man and a Good Husband. Such good advice I see my own life in this. I am trying!
(Image/willemgous.com) First we took Husbands, and split them into two groups — Good Men and Bad Men.
And this isn’t about “nice guys” versus “bad boys.” Non-conformist “bad boys” engaging in mischief with sometimes aggressive, daring and tough exteriors can still be very good men. We’re talking about character. Not personality type.
Women are often attracted to men who do bad things. But good, healthy people are not attracted to BAD people. (Think Adolf Hitler, not James Dean.) I’m comfortable saying that people should NOT marry, remain married to, or have children with fundamentally bad people.
(Read The Taxonomy of Married Men, Vol. 1 here)
So now we have Husbands who are Good Men, and we’re splitting them into two groups — Good Husbands and Bad Husbands.
Lots of good men are lousy husbands. Being a husband is a skill. Just like playing instruments, flying helicopters and…
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